Category 3 - Not Sure Yet

The last category of instant attraction is -

Category 3 - Not Sure Yet

Fall into this category and it is a double edged sword.  You have not worked on your body language, grooming or physical fitness to create an instant attraction.  But she has not rejected you outright yet either.

As you develop your approaches (and your confidence), this is where you are going to fit with most single women that you meet in real life. Unless she completely shuts your advances down, then you are in with a good chance. Just don't act like most men and take the first short answer as a sign of rejection and make a quck exit.  There is nothing worse then a premature withdrawal.

 

Category 2 - I Don't Like Him

Women have the ability to look at a man and come to an almost instant opinion of attraction based on body language.  The first opinion is a strong attraction.  The second is the complete opposite -

Category 2 - I Don't Like Him

Fall into this category and you are wasting your time even trying to pick her up in a bar.  Her body language will scream "get away from me", so look for other women to chat to.  If you do ignore the signs then she will try and put people in between you (probably a few big guys) as a physical barrier.  

Women will pickup a lack of confidence a mile away and it will cling to you like bad deoderant.  Make sure you have your inner game working before you enter the battlefield.

 

 

Category 1 - I Like Him

Women are fast to evaluate you as a man.  Meet for the first time and she will have formed an opinion of you based on your body language and how you deal wth people around you even before you open your mouth.  The first of these 3 categories is -

I Like Him

If you happen to look or remind her of someone that she liked, dress in a certain type of way that she finds attractive or simply appeal to her raw sense of attraction, then you have already got your foot in the door.  You already have the upper hand when it comes to talking to her.  Just look for your cues and take advantage of the situation.

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Introducing Nataliya

 Say hello to Nataliya who you can find in our Russian Women gallery.  Natiliya is 5'7" and 123 lbs.  She describes her character as - 

It is not easy to start describing my character, people always try to show their best sides! But guess I have to do it) I may say that I am easy-going, I am not a conflict person. But as any other person I might be in bad mood or have depression...But I try to be positive and smile a lot, it really helps in life. I am sure that personal meeting is much better than INTERNET corresponding, that is why I am ready for the meeting. Life is too short and we are to take the best from it!!! I am here to take from life positive emotions and perhaps even to find a friend or a future husband.

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Webcams And Chatting Online

If you start dating over the web to get to know someone, then at some stage you are going to have to use a chat service.  Emails are fine to get to know what your prospective partner likes.  But to form a real connection you are going to have to start communicating using body language. 

Obviously, if you are several thousand miles apart this is difficult to do face to face (atleast expensive anyway).  To solve the problem you are going to need two things -

1.  A webcam

2. A microphone

If you have a modern laptop, then these are most likely built in.  I would suggest a headset microphone to cut down the echno noise however.

Next, download and install Skype on both computers.  It has great webcam support and the audio/video quality to most parts of the world is good.  If you don't like Skype, just about every chat program from mail.ru's chat agent, yahoo and msn all support a webcam.

Now get talking.  

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UK Dating Stats

I found an interesting article on my hard drive about dating stats in the UK you might be interested in.  It did not come with an attribution to the author or parent site, so if it is yours then speak up and I will provide the suitable credit (credit where credit is due).  The report states that members -

53% have dated more than one person at the same time. 

71% believe in love at first sight. 

30% consider personality in choosing a mate; 14% consider sense of humor and 11% go by looks. 

29% say unfaithfulness is the primary reason behind relationship break ups. 

78% believe that his/her companion is not 100% honest with them. 

25% believe that a casual dating partnership becomes a serious relationship when one says "I Love You." 

67% don't trust their partners on the first date. 

44% believe a 5 year gap should be maintained while choosing a mate. 

69% are utilizing online dating web sites to find dates. 

Despite such a high divorce average in the UK, 44% of respondents want to marry again. 

22% believe the work or office provides a great source for dates. 

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New Member - Anna

New Profile at Mail Order Brides.  Anna has joined our site and is from Ukraine.  This 18 year old beauty is 5'4", 112 lbs and lists her interests as swimming, skating and volleyball.